Black People Meet Review

UPDATE: Due to numerous complaints we have received about Black People Meet, we no longer have the good faith in recommending this dating website.

Some of the reasons include: lack of customer service, unexpected billing charges, lack of member success, and more. 

A better alternative would be Eharmony. You can read a full review on Eharmony here or get a complimentary 29 dimension personality test by going straight to their sign up page here.

Recommended Age

25 - 45

Number of Members

5.5 Million

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Do you find the dating sites feel like they're all conspiring against you to not provide anything for you and your demographic? You might think you're being paranoid, but it could be more true than you realize.

Dating sites have been so focused on pleasing everyone that they can easily look over certain groups. I definitely know this from experience.

As a black single, I found myself frustrated by many of the more "mainstream" sites. Finding other black singles to date was way more frustrating than it should've been.

I don't have a black-specific preference, but the lack of responses I got from white users or non-black users of color made me feel fairly unwanted.

Signing up for Black People Meet was floated by me, but I wasn't sure if it was for me. Part of it seemed like I might be conceding, like I needed a website to help me. Then, I realized that everyone who does online dating gets help through websites.

Using Black People Meet has made me so much more confident in my dating life. I've been able to get in touch with people who appreciate me for who I am. This review will help you to understand the value of Black People Meet.

Key Features

  • "Virtual Gifts" You can really make a bold statement by giving a user a "Virtual Gift," to show your attraction. These can be traditionally things like flowers that might not be physically real but can show just how just real your admiration is.
  • "PromoteMe and MatchMe" If you've wondered why certain users tend to show up at the top of your matches, it's likely because they're using these features. With PromoteMe and MatchMe, you can give yourself an advantage by showing up in more searches.
  • "ProfilePro" You might know that your profile isn't quite what you want it to be, but you might also be stumped about how to remedy this. With ProfilePro, the team of quality writers on-staff provides your profile with an upgrade to better your odds.
  • "ConnectMe" If you want to talk on the phone but don't want to give out your own number due to privacy concerns, Black People Meet totally understands. With ConnectMe, you'll be provided with a temporary phone number that otherwise functions like any other.


Although Black People Meet might sound like a pretty niche site, it gets quite a lot of traffic, showing that there's a serious interest level for black dating websites

While most users are black, it's not restricted to them. I've known non-black people who've found lots of success using Black People Meet.

There are more men than women on the site, so that could affect you, depending on what you're looking for. Although there are users from around the world, the overwhelming majority are from the United States.

About 30,000 members are active each week. That might seem low compared to how many users there are, but the quality is apparent.

  • Include location, date of birth, username and a password
  • Personal biography of up to 1,250 characters
  • Only takes a few minutes to make profile
  • Maximum of 30 photos allowed
  • Photos can be chosen from computer library or Facebook

It doesn't take very long to sign up for Black People Meet. Minimal personal information is required, so you don't have to worry about your safety being compromised.

However, it's still good to use caution and not make anything public that could jeopardize your security.

When you sign up, you'll be able to write a personal biography that can't be any longer than 1,250 characters.

You should be as detailed as possible, but don't' feel like you need to stuff this section with superfluous sentences. Quality is always better than quality.

The same goes for photos. You'll be able to include as many as 30 photos. You should focus on choosing ones that show how attractive and unique you are.

Black People Meet is a site for showing how proud and comfortable you are in your skin. Your photos can act as a great means of expressing this to the world.


  • Can see pictures of all users without paid account
  • No verification process
  • Fake profiles can be reported
  • Very detailed and informative profiles

How you use Black People Meet is up to you, but it's best to put as much work into your profile as possible.

Do your best to keep your profile beefy and interesting. You might not get it perfect the first time around, but you're able to edit it down the line.

It's a shame when you realize how many profiles are light on information, such as not filling out their personal biography.

But you can still find success by reaching out to people who have informative profiles. You can also set a good example for other users by showing them how much it pays off to have a detailed profile.

Black People Meet gives users lots of choices for how they curate their profiles, but it's up to them if they want to take advantage of all of these.

If you're paying for a membership, you should definitely be giving your profile as much bulk as possible.

Making Contact

  • 11 featured matches per day
  • Free search filters available for finding matches
  • No charge for exchanging "likes"
  • Chatroom for paid members
  • Can only interact as a free user through "Flirt"

If you've ever used dating apps like Tinder, you know about swiping through different accounts to indicate whether or not you're interested in them.

On Black People Meet, this is quite aptly called "I'm Interested." You can also enjoy playing "Who Do You Like?" which shows two users. You can then choose which, if any, you'd like to pursue.

The paid users on Black People Meet get the most advantages, namely being able to exchange messages. If you're still getting accustomed to the site, you can stick with using the "Flirt" feature to show users that they've caught your attention.

However, if you want to make actual progress with Black People Meet, you need to get a pad account. You can also use ConnectMe for secure phone interactions.

After all, communicating via phone can really show you what kind of chemistry you have with somebody. With a paid account, you can make full use of Black People Meet's great features.

BlackPeopleMeet Costs & Pricing

I understand that just telling you a dating site is affordable doesn't provide you with a whole lot of information. But with that in mind, Black People Meet is certainly an affordable site.

You're able to get a membership in one, three, or six-month intervals. All of these should work within your budget, and longer subscriptions are less per month.

It's easy to pay for a Black People Meet membership, even if you're a bit more old-fashioned. You can do so securely through a credit card or PayPal.

You're also able to do so via mailing a check. If you've got your finances in order and are serious about finding someone, you have pretty much no excuse to not sign up for Black People Meet.

State taxes are also factored into your subscription costs. Additionally, your subscription is auto-renewed when it ends. Make sure that you're keeping track of this so you're not hit by an unexpected charge.

Pros and Cons


  • Lots of free search options
  • Many users
  • Informative profiles
  • Gives you "Message Ideas" for contacting users
  • Tokens for more enhanced experience
  • Safety advice given


  • Might be more ways to match than you're comfortable with
  • Have to pay for subscription all at once
  • Lack of communication options for free users

The Bottom Line:

Black People Meet gives users hope when it might've felt diminished. That may sound a bit hyperbolic for a dating site, but it's true. If you're a black single and have felt like the online dating game isn't being inclusive, you can use Black People Meet to see that you haven't been forgotten.

Not only does Black People Meet cater to black singles and those interested in them, but it also provides users with amazing features, such as "ConnectMe" and "Virtual Gifts." Other dating sites could learn a few things from following Black People Meet's example.

Most importantly, Black People Meet has proven that black singles are a demographic that deserves attention from dating sites. The online dating world shouldn't see this as the only site that is targeted towards black users. Instead, they should use it to figure out how they can better reach black users and show they're cared about.